Recap of 2010-03

家家有本難唸的經

As I previously mentioned, my sis-in-law was intro to the family in May. A time when they already planned to live and stay together, a time when they already planned to ROM. And they did so in Sept. Everyone of us is happy, really happy. But alas, how long can the happiness last?

Hmm… I dunno what to say lah… Maybe they din really know each other that well? Maybe she havent adapt to our family yet? Maybe she havent blend in to our family yet? Quarrels, arguments, crazy acts (which I dun want to elaborate) of various topics, various subjects filled up Year 2010. Argued abt anything under the sun. I often tot abt this: When there’s no mutual trust and understanding, why get married? Isn’t mutual trust and mutual understanding a fundamental part of marriage? Venting angers on each other or others are plain silly lor.

We did welcome her with open arms when she joined our family back then. But it’s only less than a yr that this relationship turned sour. An incident occurred which I was forced to take a day leave to take care of. An incident that left a thorn in everybody’s heart. Till today, that incident remains. Mystery unsolved. It’s kinda become a forbidden topic in our hse.

I truly wish to restore the harmony in our hse. I truly want back our peace and happiness in our hse. I know the art of getting along with each other is not easy to master. Everyone is learning, learning hard. But I hope we can work this out together.

Year 2011 is still a year of hope, rite? Anything can happen. And I really mean anything!

Let’s stay hopeful! =)